Frequently Asked Questions

User Accounts

How much does it cost to create a Black Book Singles account?
Creating a Black Book Singles account is free for everyone!
Can I change the username for my account?
Once you have created an account on Black Book Singles, you cannot change your username. Please note that usernames are not visible to other members; only the name you include in your profile is.
I forgot the password for my account!
That's okay! You can reset your password by providing your username or the e-mail address you supplied when creating your account.

What kind of info can I include in my profile?
Your profile should describe yourself, what you enjoy, and what you are looking to attain through Black Book Singles. does not permit the posting of pornographic imagery, trademarked or copyrighted work, or content that is threatening or malicious in nature. For full details on what is and is not permitted on Black Book Singles, please reference the Terms of Service.
Who can see my profile?
When creating a profile, you can specify that your profile be either public or private. If it is public, anyone visiting Black Book Singles can view your profile. If it is private, only members you initiate contact with will be able to view your profile.
My city, region, or postal code isn't appearing as an searchable location.
If your city doesn't appear as an options as you start to type the name on the profile search form or during the profile creation process, please contact support@blackbooksingles.com with more information to receive assistance in resolving the issue.
Is there a way to keep track of other members?
Yes, Black Book Singles allows you to save other members' profiles into your favorites. Additionally, the user dashboard that appears when logged in provides an overview of what other users in the area have been doing recently on Black Book Singles.

I don't know what to write!
That's okay, writers block happens to the best of us. If you're looking for ideas on what to say to another member you're interested in, take a look at the Black Book Singles Blog for tips & advice. You might also consider sending a simple wink to let the person know you're interested, but that you don't know what to say.
I sent a message that I didn't mean to send!
Just like email and standard mail, there is no way to "unsend" a message. Be careful not to write anything you didn't really mean to say!
The same user won't stop messaging me!
In the near future, Black Book Singles will be implementing a means of ignoring incoming messages from certain members. Until then, you'll just have to ignore them yourself. If you are being feel that you are a victim of harassment, please contact support@blackbooksingles.com.